Tonight’s WPCA-FM story broadcast was a tale called The Driveway. Revisiting it after time away, I found I liked the descriptions of winter, snow and ice and the reality of the struggle to ascend a very difficult driveway out in the woods with few neighbors nearby. It’s a scenario I know well from our 20 years with a difficult driveway on the west side of Bone Lake. To create a story from reality, one throws in a young and pregnant city girl, a worried mother whose warnings are no help to a person feeling vulnerable, a young professional husband with one foot still in the big city, and a wood stove needing fuel to match the results of simply turning up a thermostat. The Driveway was the second story of the 27 stories I’ve written and I think it reads well. In fact, I’m a bit relieved; I’ve wondered if some women might read the story as a put-down of a female. I don’t think so though, as she learns she is tougher than she–or her mother–thought.
I think The Driveway was appropriate for tonight’s weather, which has light snow falling and the thermometer falling, too, as the wind rises. But, hey! That’s why we live here! I spent most of today installing a vanity and sink at the Luck rental property. The vanity/sink package was heavy; the box said it was a two-person lift. I’d assembled the parts needing assembly in the downstairs Mexican Room, but then had to get the load up the hill to the car. The solution: a sled that’s a legacy from my son Aaron. Instead of whizzing down hills on the sled, however, I’ve used it to sled firewood to the house from the stacks at the back of the property. The sled worked fine for the vanity/sink, too and served well for sliding the load from the car to the kitchen door of the Luck house. This project is one that I didn’t look forward to tackling, but it turned out well and was a definite answer to fervent prayer.
Last week Marina and I enjoyed lunch with our son John at Stillwater’s Lowell Inn, a place that’s still as elegant as it was more than 40 years ago when Miss Alice, then in her 90’s I think, wearing an evening gown, greeted her guests personally and graciously. We had lunch there when Marina’s Tanta Paula visited from Berlin and there were several occasions when, following libations and fondue in The Matterhorn Room, we somehow managed to navigate the country roads back home. Back then, the roads to Stillwater WERE country roads and the town was “way out there” from The Cities. How things change in a few decades! What was then a quaint downtown now has become a concrete canyon and visitors cram the sidewalks, many intent on jaywalking, apparently as a challenge to see how close they can come to getting run down by motorists slow-crawling through town.
Our family was busy for Thanksgiving and we are not up to producing a large meal and hosting many people, so we decided to do something new for us and partake of Bone Lake Lutheran’s Thanksgiving meal. Bone Lake Lutheran is about two miles up County Road I from us and we figured we might meet some people we knew and perhaps make some new acquaintances. And that’s what happened. We secured a place in the far corner so that Andy, Marina’s Seeing Eye Dog (and the hero of her book about him and his predecessor, Gretel) had room to lie down. Several people made the trek to the back corner to visit with us and we met fellow Bone Lakers Deb and Rick, who live down the coast from us. It was a new experience for us and worth doing! On top of all this, the meal portions dished up by the good people of Bone Lake Lutheran were more than generous.
Around here we call the Thanksgiving season “Holy Week”. Much of life grinds to a halt as deer season runs its nine days. (Yes, yes, I know there are more limited seasons for deer like bow hunting and some others.) The men I know enjoy being outdoors and having a break from their usual duties, while some women like the idea of “Doe On The Go”, which involves shopping–a sort-of getting even, I suspect–but an activity that boosts local businesses. And some families rely on deer hunting success to fill the freezer with meat, no small thing when you look at the price of beef and pork these days. I used to schedule coffee with the few guys I knew that didn’t hunt and we had our pick of many tables in any restaurant we decided to visit.
I receive updates from the United Methodists and various ministries that demonstrate the pressure on clergy to offer meaningful Advent and Christmas programs, events, and sermons and I must say that it feels good this year not to have to produce anything. We have a small Christmas tree in the window–Marina got it for a dollar years ago–and our two stockings hang from the loft stairway railing. Marina’s stocking is larger than mine. I won’t make a wisecrack about that. My stocking dates from my childhood. It was large enough then for perhaps some walnuts, a small candy bar, and an orange or apple. Post-war, that was very good. And since those long-ago years, I find I have been very blessed in life, even by the difficult times.